Ever since I had kids all my real life friends have kinda disappeared.
It's totally not their fault!!!!!!!!
I guess it's not mine either, we just have very different life styles, live in different places and all have VERY busy schedules.
I also for financial reasons we cannot afford to have a cell phones and I have decided to discontinue my personal facebook account so that doesn't leave many lines of communication open.
(my bridal luncheon...life long friends here)
(My Bridal Shower)
Their at the tapas bar at 8pm for dinner and drinks and I'm doing bath, book and bedtime routines and cleaning up splattered food and rotten milk.
It's just life, but it makes me sad sometimes!!!
(My Bachelorette Party!!!!)
My wedding day (my bestest of friends)
I remember night after night for years on end in my early twenties when I would just sit with my bestie or my girfriends and just gossip and chat about stupid silly things for hours and hours on end.
I miss it, I miss them!!!
(my nursing school friends)
I feel alone alot . I guess that's probably why I have this blog because I don't have any real friends left so I guess I can have all you lovely cyber friends who I don't really know but I am so grateful for you because you keep me going on a daily basis.
(A dear, dear later in life friend who I treasure)
Ridiculous Bridal shower games with my maid of honor and best friend!
I wouldn't give up my "settled" life with husband and kids for anything but I sure do miss the life long friendships that have seemingly been put on pause.
I'm hoping it's just a phase. Maybe in a few years when my kids are in school, I'll be able to to do a few more things.
(my NYC nursing friends)
MISS THESE LADIES SO MUCH!
If any of you real life friends are reading this.......I MISS YOU!!!!!!
(life long friends here. this was taken 18 years ago)
Anyone else have this problem????
First one to be married and have kids?
Side note, anybody think I should dye my hair back to blonde??? Or keep it natural. I Had it blonde my whole life until I had babies?